Sunday, February 01, 2009

His Cross, Extended

Once again, more weight has been added to the cross borne on the back of our dear friend, Fr. Sarkies. Let us keep this forum a positive place where we can bear witness to the wonderful things Fr. Sarkies has done for us.

He baptized my two sons, he consoled us when my father died. He has been a steadfast friend. I know that I speak for us his friends that we stand with him in his continued time of trial, as he bears his cross. I know Jeffrey Sarkies. I know him to be a good man, a man of integrity and principle who would rather go down than compromise his principles.

Wednesday, November 15, 2006

A Going Away Gathering

"Friends of Fr. Sarkies" is organizing a surprise going-away party for Fr. Sarkies as he leaves the Seattle area for his new home in Arizona. We are asking, his friends here in Seattle, for help in sending him off in a show of love and support.

The date is Sunday, November 19 from 1 to 4PM at the Delridge Community Center, 4501 Delridge Way SW, Seattle. A map can be found here.

We expect Father to be arriving at 1:15PM (he thinks he is attending a party for someone else). So, if you would like to witness the surprise, please arrive at the community center by 1:05PM. Otherwise, please feel free to come anytime. The open house will last until 4PM. There will be light appetizers, soft drinks, coffee and tea.

There will also be a donation basket for anyone interested in contributing a monetary gift to Father Sarkies. As all of us well know, the riches of priesthood is not material. Retired priests live on very fixed and limited incomes.

Please feel free to forward this to anyone who may have been missed. Please be sensitive that some members of the parish may not approve of such a celebration. We do not want to offend anyone.

We hope you can join us.

Friends of Fr. Sarkies

Thursday, July 13, 2006

A Dialogue between Didymus and Jesus

Fr. Sarkies' entry for the week of July 9 is extremely compelling. Titled Didymus Notes: A Dialogue, we get a glimpse of the humanity that is roiling within him. If you care deeply for our former pastor, this is something that you should read.

Friday, June 09, 2006

Fr. Sarkies' Blog

If you missed Fr. Sarkies' weekly columns on the Progress and his "From the Pastor" articles on the Holy Rosary bulletin, you can read him his columns once again in his blog at the address below. He posts weekly on Fridays. Do check it out and bookmark it!

http://didymus.wordpress.com

Wednesday, May 31, 2006

In the Name of the Father

This was written during Holy Week 2006.

This is Holy Week for Christians. For Catholics, it is the end of Lent, a time to move from reflection to celebration. Yet, for the myself and many of the members of my parish, Holy Rosary in West Seattle, this Holy Week is strangely unsettling. A few weeks ago, our priest, Father Jeffrey Sarkies, was removed . He said Mass on Thursday, and was banished on Saturday.
The Archbishop’s representative was careful to explain that Father Sarkies had been removed for ethical violations, and not any inappropriate contact with minors. Reading the story from the pages of the newspaper, Father Sarkies’ removal undoubtedly seemed like another in the litany of unfortunate scandals for the Catholic Church.
But at the parish level, this turn of events has been unsettling, casting a poignant tone to Lent. As we revisit, in the Gospels, the story of a man of great faith clashing with the church hierarchy, the irony of our own priest’s removal is hard to miss.
Father Sarkies was a good man. He brought numerous lapsed Catholics back to the church. He wrote prolifically of his own struggle to maintain faith in a culture of distraction and temptation. He was maddeningly insistent on the importance of helping the poor, the unfortunate, the disabled, the neglected. He often defended oppressed minorities. He spoke of the radical nature of Christianity, carefully pointing out that the word “radical” is derived from “root.” To him, “radical” meant returning to the root of the message of Jesus. In his mind, radicalism was the ultimate conservativism.
Then something happened, and this man of great faith was removed. Our priest of 15 years was no longer present. The parish and school staff were forbidden to speak with him. Rumors spread that Father Sarkies would not be allowed within 50 feet of the school. The Archbishop sent letters and emissaries to deliver his message, yet never appeared himself. A parish meeting was held, and communications specialists from the office of the Archbishop did their job, requesting that all communication with Father go first through the office of the Archbishop. It seemed like something out of The Cold War.
A priest friend of mine reminded me that when a Catholic walks through the doors of the church, he or she leaves a modern democracy and enters a medieval society. I have always seen this as a strength. In the face of the transient nature of modern life, the Catholic church at its best can provide a convocation of ideas, a mix of the traditional with the temporal. Great art, great religion, great ideas, and great football. That was my back seat pew version of Catholicism.
But, with the rapid removal and official censure of our extraordinary priest, the complexity of the bureaucracy of the church became uncomfortably evident. To me, it was a question of degree. The extraordinary punishment just didn’t seem to fit the alleged crime.
Was Father Sarkies paying a price for his outspokenness? Was the Bishop overreacting, as the winds from Rome seem less tolerant than ever? Have the fresh air and challenging ideas of Vatican II worn out their welcome?
In the end, a massive organization must protect its day-to-day interests. Children must be educated. The hungry must be fed. These are challenging days for the American Catholic hierarchy. Any hint of scandal must be met with decisive action.
Such was the case of our beloved parish priest. I have spoken with him, and he is doing well. He says he is at peace. But this is the man counseled my wife and I as we were contemplating marriage, held my children as they were being baptized, washed my feet during Holy Week services. Losing him is a great loss to my family and my parish.
In the 60s, during the clashes with police at the schoolhouse steps in Mississippi and Alabama, John Kennedy was reluctantly drawn into the struggle and forced to call out the National Guard to protect the black activists who bravely sought admission to all-white public schools.
When he asked one of the civil rights leaders where he got the idea to go up against the Southern powers that be, the leader said quietly, “from you, Mr. President. I listened to your inaugural speech.”
Those of us who feel Father Sarkies should be treated with dignity and respect aren’t coming up with the idea on our own. We learned it from him.
-Bill Jeakle

Thursday, March 23, 2006

He held me up when I could barely stand

When I came to Holy Rosary, I was 7 months pregnant & had strayed many years ago from God.



Shortly after I joined the parish, my first born son Samuel was born still. Not only was I devastated by a tragedy that I could not begin to understand, I was very angry at the God I had longed to find again. Father Sarkies came to my side & held me up when I could barely stand. My family was embraced not only by him but by the church community. Father Sarkies taught me what grace was and worked with me through my anger. His love and understanding led me to find grace that I was desperately searching for. My husband had never stepped into a church before this & he began to attend from time to time. He always wanted to be sure to see Father when he attended. Since our tragedy, I became a catholic and this is all part and parcel to Father Sarkies loving hand that he held out to me so many years ago.



I am deeply saddened to see a man who has done so many wonderful things for so many people suffer. Our father in heaven is weeping. Lord bring him back to our parish where he belongs.



-Jodie Underwood

Wednesday, March 22, 2006

I did not always agree with Fr. Sarkies


I did not always agree with Fr. Sarkies. Which is a good thing--you think more about things when you disagree. Sometimes I had some sleepless nights thinking about homily topics, or the From the Pastor's Desk, or the Progress Columns.



Whether I agreed or disagreed with him, I believed, and still do believe, in the basic integrity and good in the man.



I am a bit of a clam around authority figures, so I doubt I ever spoke more than a sentence to him in person. But in my mind I certainly had some long discussions! At last night's "Town Meeting" I had a bit of a start when the priest referred to Father Sarkies as "Father Jeff." There is an air of natural dignity about the man, and "Father Jeff" gave me a bit of a giggle. I cannot ever fathom walking up to Father Sarkies, slapping him on the back, and saying, "What's happenin' Father Jeff?"



I certainly do not believe in the charges against him. I would sooner believe in flying monkeys, or the earth reversing its rotation.




-Gina Terrana

A Peaceful Community

Photo of the baptism of the Woodruff's daughter

My husband and I were encouraged and excited when we joined Holy Rosary Parish because of the sense of community we felt. After being a part of the parish a while, we began to understand that Fr. Sarkies was responsible for that peaceful community feel.


He touched and lightened our life when he baptized our daughter. I am saddened that my daughter will not be able to grow up with Fr. Sarkies in the parish. I hope the peaceful community he built will remain in his absence. He will be missed.


-Molly Woodruff

I will miss you!

I had fallen away from the church about 25 years ago, but began bringing my elderly mother to Holy Rosary when she moved to the area. She has always been a faithful Catholic. Slowly, I began to remember why being Catholic had previously been a source of pride for me. I started attending mass again for my own sake as well as for my mother's sake. Father Sarkies is one big reason I have decided to return to the Church.


Thank you, Father Sarkies, for reminding me what it means to be a Catholic again. I won't soon forget. Thanks to your kind manner, meaningful sermons, and unmistakable caring for everyone, I have now returned to the fold. I will miss you!


-Kathy A. Cochran

Searching for Fr. Sarkies' Progress articles









In the parish meeting on Tuesday evening, March 21, there were some questions on how to find Fr. Sarkies’ articles in the Progress archives. The Chancery staff themselves even admitted that it was not easy.
Our technique is not comprehensive but it will find around 50 of Fr. Sarkies’s articles.


  1. Go to http://www.seattlearch.org/progress


  2. Click on the “Search Progress” link on the upper left hand column.

  3. Enter “Sarkies” as your search word.

  4. Click the “Search Progress Archives” checkbox. If you don’t check this, the search will only be conducted on the current issue of the Progress.

  5. Start your search!